You can choose to give birth:
Unless there are specific circumstances preventing this, such as chronic illness or complications during previous birth(s).
Whatever you decide, it is important to be well informed. Childbirth and labour can be frightening. Antenatal classes help you prepare for this by giving you advice on what to expect and managing pain.
Visit your hospital and discuss the options available to you with your midwife and GP. It is also important to be aware that if you decide to have your baby at home, at a Midwife Unit or birthing centre and complications arise requiring specialist medical attention, you may have to be transferred to hospital by ambulance during labour.
You should have packed a hospital bag and have a birth plan prepared by the time you go into labour. To be on the safe side, ensure that this is done by week 37 of your pregnancy. See sections on birth plan and hospital bag.
*Remember to take your medical notes with you when you go to hospital!
THE THREE STAGES OF CHILDBIRTH
Stage One
The cervix dilates (opens up) until it reaches 10cm dilated. In a first labour, the time from the start of established labour to full dilation is between 6 and 12 hours. It is often quicker for subsequent births.
You may have early signs that labour is starting including backache, diarrhoea, nausea, vomiting or a ‘show' of sticky pink mucus. This is not the same as bleeding. If you are bleeding, something may be wrong so call the hospital immediately.
The most obvious signs of labour are:
Pain Relief in Hospital
Stage Two
This is the ‘pushing' stage after your cervix has reached 10cm dilated and takes approximately one hour. Find the position that you are most comfortable with - standing, sitting, kneeling or squatting are often more comfortable than lying on your back, if you are able to do so. It is also a better position for your baby. Your midwife will be with you throughout this stage and will advise you when and how to push. If you or the baby become distressed, the midwife and doctors can help you with an episiotomy (a cut to the perineum, which will be stitched afterwards), forceps or vacuum (Ventouse) delivery.
Stage Three
After your baby is born your womb will continue to contract in order to deliver the placenta. This may take another 20-60 minutes. However, your midwife will probably administer a Syntometrine injection to speed up the process and to prevent heavy bleeding. If you do not want this, you should say so on your birth plan.
Labour and delivery is painful but only lasts a few hours and the instant your baby is born, you won't remember the pain!!!
Caesarean Section
A Caesarean section involves major surgery and will only be performed where there is a clinical need, making it the safest option for you or your baby. The baby is delivered by cutting through the lower abdomen and into the womb, normally under an epidural anaesthetic. The cut is usually done horizontally, just below the bikini line.